Dog collar, subdued and voyeuristic; Two 40-year-old professionals from the UK told me how they got out of their comfort zone and had unrequited sex.
Connecting apps have long been considered very nascent territory, but the Feeld app has had a history of doubling over the past 50+ years for those interested in casual sex, polygamy, relational sex, swinging and other alternative sexual interests.
Overall, most people in their 20s, whether married, divorced or single, are intrigued by the idea of finding someone they’re willing to date.
Several experts in their 40s in the UK told me what it’s like to use a sex app.
*Naughty girl said:
I don’t use dating apps, I’m a classic “ask someone at the bar” guy. But last year I had to sit still because I was dry and all I wanted was sex. I want more experiences in my 40s than ties or relationships. A friend recommended me some free networking apps to meet sexually active people and explore hooks. I often meet them for a beer to see if they’re okay, and then I usually go to their house. As a woman, I was hesitant to be invited to my home for the first time, but I felt safe with everyone I met. I have probably had the most life of my life.
I’m a person who likes to be in total control of my life, so I’m very interested in sexual subjugation and male domination. I am interested in discipline and the rules that come with it and the control I have over my life. I met an old man who gave me a list of things to think about to figure out what he wanted from him. They gave me the choice to feel annoyed or bad girl. Or when I feel punished. According to him, it is a way of marking boundaries. And before we met, he gave me a list of what to wear, when to go and where to meet.
We met at a hotel, he rented a room for a few hours and then occupied it. I tried to be submissive during sex, but it was really hard for me. Even if it’s not for me, I appreciate you being very honest, you have to say what you want before we meet, then we can talk openly about what you like and don’t like. . so. He combed my hair and we hugged and became very close. It taught me a lot about how to approach other casual relationships and the power of connection at this level. Honestly, I could leave it, but no service or limitations.
I have met many workers: plumbers, electricians. Many young men are looking for older women. Many men have a variety of toys that they use for me and they focus on giving me pleasure, which is great.
When I applied, I was less stressed at work than I am now, so I had a lot of meetings with people in the afternoon for sex. It’s all open: I can text someone on the bus and we’ll arrange a meeting right away, so I get off to meet them, then get back in the bus and start the day.
I feel very safe because everyone has the same opinion and everyone in this relationship respects each other. I found out that this kind of application is not as scary as you think.
*Colorful boy said:
I used sex apps when I was single in my 30s and 40s, but I wanted sex but didn’t necessarily want to date anyone. I don’t want to lead someone who wants a committed relationship. A girl said to me, “Listen, I’m lost. I don’t want to know your name. I don’t want to talk to you. I don’t want to see you again. I just want this. moment. And okay. happy, but I don’t want anymore.”
Then one night I texted that woman after a company event and we were on the phone 30 minutes later and she gave me a “full” wish list of what she wanted. he wants from this sexual encounter, including domination.
His home is a multi-million dollar mansion in Kensington. He told me that his servant was downstairs, so I should avoid that part of the house. She is a successful and powerful businesswoman, but when it comes to sex, she wants all the power from others. About 40 seconds into the house, she put her collar on and I walked through the living room. He wanted me to take him to the rooftop so the neighbors could see. He even let me write lipstick. It was a terrible night, and I stayed up until dawn.
Another woman wouldn’t let me in the room and took the blanket out into the hallway. He said he just wanted me to blow the trumpet for him – and then we had to go because he had lunch with his parents on Sunday.
I met amazing women and had crazy sex. I love how men can express themselves sexually in these spaces after so long. As long as things are one-sided and no one is harmed, I think the person who wants a divorce should get a divorce.